How I Got Better

The journey of Christian spiritual growth often challenges our conventional understanding of personal development. Under the New Covenant established through Jesus, the complex system of 613 Old Testament commands has been distilled into two essential directives: believing in Jesus and loving others. These aren't burdensome rules but natural expressions of our identity in Christ.

Many believers struggle with sanctification, attempting to force spiritual growth through sheer willpower and determination. However, genuine transformation occurs when we accept God's unconditional love and stop trying to earn His grace through good behavior. Like a farmer who plants seeds and then rests, spiritual growth happens gradually and mysteriously through God's work, not our own efforts.

Paradoxically, true spiritual growth often manifests in unexpected ways. Signs of authentic development include a heightened awareness of our shortcomings, decreased confidence in our own righteousness, and a deeper appreciation for God's grace. When we focus on Jesus and His love rather than our own performance, transformation follows naturally, leading to a more genuine expression of love toward others.